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Another Brick In The Wall

I would like for you to identify some of the bricks in your wall that create the vision and separation in your relationship/marriage 

Notice I didn’t say to identify the bricks in your spouses/gf/bf wall. 

This isn’t about finding faults or mistakes 

So let’s not focus on anything like that. 

What are the bricks that you put in the wall?

If you are single, now is the time to identify the bricks you have in your pile 

It’s much easier to deal with the bricks now than after you put them in the wall

The next thing I want to ask you to do for one week

And that is simply to pray together out loud to each other 

What I would like to start with is Prayer

Pray together out loud every day for a week 

This doesn’t cost anything to do 

You don’t have to go anywhere special to do this 

This will just take a few minutes to do 

According to some reliable research

Only about 8% of Christian couples say that they do this, pray together out loud every day 

But according to the research the divorce rate for couples that say they pray together out loud every day is about 1 in 10,000

There is almost nothing you can do that will tear down the wall and build up intimacy more than just taking a few minutes to grab the hand of your spouse/gf/bf and pray out loud every day 

I know for some of you it really intimidating and I know how hard it is has a husband to start something new when you haven’t done it for a long time 

If you do this you will be more attracted to your spouse/gf/bf 

This is what will tear down bricks that have gotten out in the wall 

Try it for 1 week. I mean really do it

Doesn’t cost you anything 

You don’t have to go anywhere

Just pray out loud every day for each other 

And see what it does to the wall that has been built up